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There is to much Drama.

By on December 10, 2008 in Journal

Teenagers seem to love drama. Whether it is just on TV or if it is in their own lives. I never realized how shows like The O.C., One Tree Hill, The Hills, Degrassi and other shows like that are just like a lot of teens lives. I have never really been apart of it and I don’t want to be. I don’t have much to say about this topic because I can’t get it in to writing. I think most of the stuff is just stupid so I can’t properly write about it, yet I have no problem writing about politics….

Here’s a couple things I have noticed, whether true or not, it what I have picked up on. Lying, I watched a situation blow up over of a lie that might not have even been said just made up to better one person. Now its almost like a gang war.  There are 2 sides and they continue to send rather unintelligent cluster of words to each other. They do not seem to be getting anywhere and are mad at each other and this is what destroys friendships half the time. It is unfortunate.

NEXT! is a situation with less, whats the word, anger? What do you do when you like your best friend? What do you do when you like your best friend again, meaning you got over it and now its back. Well Lets review……. You tell them, they don’t talk to you anymore in fear it is going to be awkward. What if you have done this and time has passed and you have become friends again and the feeling arises again. What do you do then? Because you know the out come, they’ll leave you as a friend, then your really screwed or You don’t tell them at all and go on being there friend and occasionally become depressed about the ordeal.  I’m directly related to this situation and don’t know what to make of it, I can normally come up with a solution, but I can, at least not yet.

I will write back again.

But do you see how in both situations it creates tension in friendships and nothing good can come from them in the present unless there is a civilized solution.

Think about it Huh!

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It will work out

By on December 6, 2008 in Journal

We are young and have a long road a head of us. Some of us have debt but we know that and we want to better ourselves. I realized that we can’t just live on the edge seat all the time we need to make sure we can support ourselves in the worst. Recently I have learned about not stressing, I know stress, its my specialty. Its my worst enemy and you must think, “but why, your only 18″. Well lets look at what stress me: I am only 18 but I am 18 and have almost been out of school for a year and have absolutely no idea what to do with my life and its been this way for the last 3 years. That’s not something I should stress about, I am young and I need to enjoy life before having to deal with its reality but I can’t. I want to be able to support myself financially and to properly do this I need some sort of further education, whether it is a trade or degree. There is no way I can could support my self right now. I want to much which leads me to my second stress. The Truck. a year and a half ago at the age of 16 I went $8000 into dept to buy a truck I wanted, well guess what I’m still paying it off. Had I known better I might not of bought it but then again I think I would have but pushed a little hard to pay it off. I hope to have it paid off before mid march…. will see how long those plans last because you never know when something is going to happen and you need to spend a little more then planned. Which is number three. The snowmobile, okay maybe not the snowmobile its self but the most recent issue with this reason has to do with the snowmobile. I took another $2000 out of the line of credit to get it and with only a couple hours of riding on it I blew a piston. Which is long job to change not to mention how much it cost. Its these unexpected payments I have to make to make sure everything is working. I was lucky this time around I was able to do most of the work myself with guidance from a friend.

If there is one thing I have learned about stress or not stressing is that the problem which you are stressing over will work its self out eventually you just need to be patient. I will find something to do one day, probably nothing that I or anyone else is expecting but I will do something. I will pay the truck off eventually and yes there maybe problems with it but they will get fixed one way or another and the same with the snowmobile. I maybe bored today but maybe tomorrow will bring something or someone new……..

Never live in regret and never look back, you never know when something is gaining on you.

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Muppet Show or City Council

By on November 25, 2008 in Reviews, Travels

Okay so this past Monday a friend and I took a trip to city hall for the council meeting. I forgot to take my note book so I could follow up here with what the dicussions were about and what they were arguing about. But what amazed me was how some of them pout when the arguement wasn’t to their advantage. They were acting like they were 5. I mean heck I’m 18 and I’m pretty sure I could have been more mature in this particular argument than most councilers.

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